As a Japanese individual living in Korea, I’ve had the unique privilege of experiencing life from two rich and distinct cultural perspectives. This experience has been further enriched by the joy of raising twin babies, who are now 10 months old, in this vibrant country.
Raising children in a country different from your own offers an array of challenges and opportunities. For my wife, who is Korean, and me, it’s a daily journey of blending our cultures and traditions to create a nurturing environment for our twins. We’re keen on instilling in them a sense of respect and appreciation for both Japanese and Korean cultures.
Korea, with its deep-rooted traditions and rapidly evolving society, presents a fascinating backdrop for child-rearing. The emphasis on education, respect for elders, and the importance of community are values that resonate deeply with my Japanese upbringing. However, Korea’s unique approach to these values brings a new perspective and understanding.
One of the most striking aspects of raising kids here is the communal approach to parenting. Neighbors and friends often play a significant role in a child’s life, embodying the proverb “It takes a village to raise a child.” This sense of community is something that I greatly admire and somewhat contrasts with the more individualistic approach I observed back in Japan.
The local cuisine is another area where our children are getting the best of both worlds. Korean food, known for its bold flavors and nutritious ingredients, is a daily part of our diet. We also make sure to introduce them to Japanese dishes, thereby cultivating their taste for diverse flavors from an early age.
Language development is an interesting aspect for our twins. They’re being raised in a bilingual environment, absorbing both Korean and Japanese. This exposure will not only enhance their cognitive abilities but also deepen their connection to both cultures.
The challenges, however, are also part of this journey. Navigating the healthcare system, understanding parenting norms, and even simple tasks like finding the right products for our babies can be daunting at times. But these challenges are dwarfed by the joy of seeing our children grow up in a rich, culturally diverse environment.
In conclusion, raising kids in Korea as a Japanese parent has been an enlightening and rewarding experience. It’s a journey filled with learning, love, and a blend of cultures that enriches our family’s life in unimaginable ways. Our hope is that our twins grow up with a broad perspective, understanding, and appreciation for both their heritages, becoming true citizens of the world.
Atsushi's Life in Korea 