As I approach my 40s and transition into a career in sales, I’ve come to a significant realization about my true aptitude and personal inclinations. Growing up in a family of high achievers, with my father being a lawyer and my younger brother a physicist at the prestigious University of Tokyo, I always felt a subtle pressure to excel in theoretical and academic fields. However, my recent career shift has been a revealing journey of self-discovery.
Despite attending the University of Tokyo and dedicating myself to my studies, I’ve observed a clear difference in my approach compared to my more theoretically-inclined family and friends. This realization, rather than being a source of anxiety, has surprisingly brought me a sense of relief and clarity. Unlike my father and brother, I find that my strengths lie not in abstract theories but in interacting with people. This understanding has come as a welcome revelation, especially as I near an age often associated with existential questioning.
My new role in sales has not only provided financial stability but has also played a crucial role in my mental well-being. It’s a practical demonstration of how one’s economic base can influence their cultural and social outlook. In my case, the success and stability I’ve found in my career have allowed me to appreciate and embrace my unique qualities and preferences.
Looking forward, I feel a sense of excitement and liberation. I am eager to continue engaging with people, using my natural disposition to my advantage. This chapter of my life underscores the importance of self-awareness and authenticity. It’s a reminder that true fulfillment comes from understanding and embracing who we are, rather than conforming to external expectations or family precedents.
Atsushi's Life in Korea 